I'm sure we've all been faced with the issue on whether to tell a person the truth or not...Do we tell them in hopes they'd listen? Do we let it go and let that person never know the truth?its super complicated. Do we just say something to let it be known? Even tho it seems sooo easy
Here's my story:
Back in High School I talked to this guy.. No biggie .. I was like in 11th grade he was a bit older Out of High school I think. I guess when we were "talking"(if you call it that) he was talking to this other girl. This girl got a hold of my number and started talking crap on how he was with her..blah blah blah.. After that I confronted him and told me it was some crazy ex- and he really like me, blah blah same ol' guy story. I got over it.. it kept happening so I decided to end it. I cut off all communication with him. He begged back(of course, haha). She called a few more times after .. but I figured I was over it and she will be too...
A few months later I believe he started texting me and what not. I didn't see no harm it so I would text back. He was going through problems with school so I would try to help him out. He was trying to get into a baseball program, I even called coaches on his behalf. He always told me he still liked me but I didn't pay attention to it. He had already showed me he wasn't worthy so I only saw him as a friend.
THAN out of nowhere the SAME girl came back around, this time talking about how they were going to get married blah blah ... all on friggin myspace mind you ... I told her EVERYTHING he had told me. I felt, at the time, it was the right thing to do. If I was about to marry a guy I would want to know what was going on as well. I cited text messages(Him saying he loved me and stuff WTF right?) and I still came out the bad guy. It was like I was suppose to know what he was hiding.
Long story short, I told her what he did...she pretty much told me that he would never do that and I was jealous and blah blah blah.
First of all .. Why would I be jealous of a girl who was getting played? Second why would I waste my time making up this elaborate stories ? I could honestly care less what is happening in your life, I have my own problems to worry about.
Point of the story .. Would you listen to a girl (me?) telling you "the love of your life" isn't who you think he is ? Should I had even said anything in the first place ?
I guess when you're in love you're blind to everything else. . . I just truly feel sad for this girl .. It would break my heart to know a guy, my guy(!), is saying he loved another girl when we were "happily in love".
Anywhoo, this all came up 'cause oh girl myspaced me and asked "are you done with this drama?" or some extent of that. (Mind you this was when I was like 16. 4.5 effin years ago.)
Honey Bunches, Their was never any drama. :] I was just looking out for a fellow female. I'd hate for a guy to do me that way.
UPDATE ON HER:
(We all love these)
I guess they got married and had a baby or some ish like that.. lol.. That's what I got from the space...(yes I did accept her friend request, I have nothing to hide. lol) I hope he stopped playing his games tho, especially since theirs a baby involved.
It makes me feel kinda special that I was in someones head for sooo long who was no where near mines. :]
This was super long, I know, I just thought it would be a good topic!