The good life is inspired by love and guided by knowledge.

I always find it funny how its easiest to give advice to someone else but hardest to take your own advice.

A few friends have been going through relationship problems and asked me for advice .. I let them know exactly what I think should be done from what I learned through observation of others, talking to different types of people and of course good 'ol Cosmo!(jk kinda, lol). I've learned what is highly effective and what should be avoided...

You would think my relationships have been just peachy in the past but if you're a long time reader you know that's just the opposite. Sometimes I end up doing the opposite of what I thought was right at the time. Sometimes causing me to beg(which should never be done) and plead or even stay quiet about things that should have been a big deal.

To be fair, I also think the experience has brought the knowledge.
Of course I'll still make mistakes here and there but knowing what I want will make them less embarrassing and make me look less desperate.. lol.

Just remember: the person who deserves you is the one that's will treat you the best and versa. No need to ever settle. :]

xoxo
Megan

Oh girl .. you look preggers !

I was reading my oh so awesome Cosmo mag the other day and came across an article titled
"A dating coach gives his no BS Tips"

I know how creditable Cosmo is .. but can you blame a girl for being interested in what it has to say? lol
Anyways .. I found some of the things quite interesting .. and for you non-readers of the women's bible to sex, beauty and love .. here's a problem the author discuss:

Problem:
You're dressing for guys and not girls

It sounds ridiculous but it actually true. When you go out shopping you get the opinion of your female bestie...What is cute for us girls isn't always attractive to men.
Example given: Baby Doll dresses.

"They make a women look heavier than they are ... or pregnant"

I cracked up when I read this. why? Personal experience:
Once I was dating this guy and he took me to six flags. I wore jeans and I cute(I thought) flowy top. It was form fitting on the bust and loose as it went down. I thought I was super cute .... That day he told me I looked gorgeous(all guys say that when they are trying to impress you) but come weeks later when we talked about that day .. he confessed that he hated that shirt.. his words were "it made you look like you were pregnant because everything was slim and it was just extra fabric on your tummy"
lmao :[
So yea, I learned the hard way...I'm not saying to do away with flowy stuff. . . just don't expect to find a guy finding that outfit attractive.

Guys advice:
"We want to see you in something that shows off your figure but isn't sleezy (That sends a message of desperation). When in doubt, go with body-hugging jeans, a sexy top and heels"

Oh no she didn't

hahaha .. tell me thats not funny ! ^

Happy St. Patricks Day everyone! Super late on the post but super busy as well ..

Please explain to me why a TOTALLY RANDOM lady came up to me today at the store and pinches me saying

"no Green!"

gave her an awkward smile than walked away ..

LMAO.

wow. haha. I totally forgot...to be honest, didn't really know it was today. haha

anywhoo ! Hope you had a good one.

xoxo

Megan

Speak on it: Thought of the day : Fairy tale love ?

I was once told that we don't live in fairy tales .. I wont find my prince charming .. no one does what they do in the movies .. Life just isn't that simple ..

Hopeless romantic ? Probably.

Does it exist or am I dreaming?

Speak on it. :]