Discussion question of the day:
"What do you look for in the opposite sex?"
I asked this question to my co-worker curious on how he would react. It was quit interesting indeed.
Me: What do you look for in a girl?
Him: ::Ponders::
Me: -waits-
Him: ::Ponders some more:: Good Question
Me: Random, I know. Just thinking bout it.
Him: I'll get back to you.
- - - - - 20 minutes go by - - - - -
Him: [randomly] I think she has to be independent. She doesn't need me but she wants me there.
Me: -Laughs hysterically- I can't believe you really thought about my question
Him: Well it WAS a good question
My point is that, I don't think you really know what you want till you think about it. They say, "you need to go Through all the bad ones till you find the good ones" but why go Through the bad ones when you have an outline in your head of what you want, and only pursue the people that have those qualities? Or is that being tooo picky? ORRRR is everyone already doing that? haha.
I hear so much bad things about friends and co-workers relationships, include myself in some of my past ones and most the time it doesn't even seem worth the drama. The previously mentioned co-worker once told me that
"you shouldn't waste your time with someone if you don't see yourself with them 10 years from now. You're just wasting both your times and in the end your just being selfish."
Doesn't that sound totally ideal? Even like a "no duh" kinda concept. Its just funny how people, including myself, become stuck in a bad one...
Its funny how one conversation can lead to so much. :]
Think about the qualities you want in a person.
xoxo
Tuesday, December 23, 2008
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2 Freakin Comments!:
You made a really good point about finding the right one. We should really picture ourselves 10 years from now with that one in order for us to conclude that it'll last. I think nothing is wrong with being too picky. After all, we just don't want to risk our lives for just another heartache.
You made a really interesting and fun-read post. :)
The Idea of picturing yourself with that person for a decade is interesting, but you have to consider one thing first. Don't think too much about the situation and just let it happen. Girls over look the entire scenario and concentrate on the big things instead of focusing on the small things that end up being the most important things!
Think about it?
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